Wednesday, February 18, 2009

One day I decided to quit...


I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality. .. I wanted to quit my life.

I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.

"God", I said. "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"

His answer surprised me...

"Look around", He said. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"

"Yes", I replied.

“When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo…”

“In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.” He said.

"In the third year, there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In the fourth year, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed…”

"I would not quit." He said.

"Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. .. But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."

He said to me. "Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots."

"I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.“

“Don't compare yourself to others..." He said. “The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern... Yet, they both make the forest beautiful." “Your time will come,“ God said to me."You will rise high!"

“How high should I rise?" I asked. “How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return. "As high as it can?” I questioned. "Yes." He said.

"Give me glory by rising as high as you can."

I left the forest and bring back this story.

I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you.

He will never give up on you.

Never regret a day in your life.

Good days give you happiness. Bad days give you experiences; both are essential to life.

A happy and meaningful life requires our continuous input and creativity. It does not happen by chance. It happens because of our choices and actions. And each day we are given new opportunities to choose and act and, in doing so, we create our own unique journey.

Keep going... Happiness keeps you Sweet, Trials keep you Strong, Sorrows keep you Human, Failures keep you humble , Success keeps You Glowing, but Only God keeps You Going!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Famous Break-up Lines



Here are some famous Break-up Lines... Do some of these lines ring a bell? Has anyone ever dumped you before? Well... here are some of the most obvious, insensitive and often over used break up lines...


1. "I just realized that I don't want to be touched."
(Virgin ka ‘te?)

2. "I'm confused and I need some time out to find myself!!!"
(Eto flashlight, go look for yourself!)

3. "Maybe this is not the right time for us."
(Anak ng tipaklong! di na kita tatanggapin ulit no?! Bakit? anong oras ba dapat?! alas-otso?????)

4. "Di kita maalagaan ng tulad ng ineexpect mo. You deserve someone better. That's not me."
(Bakit sinabi ko bang gusto ko ng YAYA????)

5. "Lasing lang ako kagabi. Sorry."
(Eh ako ba lasing? Sino nagsabi sa iyo na manligaw ka ng lasing!)

6. "We are too different from each other."
(Bakit anong klaseng ANIMAL ka??)

7. "We have to meet other people to see what it's like to be with someone else. I'm giving you that choice. If you come back to me, we'll both be better from having chosen freely"
(HoY! mga palusot mo! break kung ayaw mo na...dami mo pang satsat eh! )

8. "Someday, hahanapin kita, when we're both ready. When we don't care about the odds. Kung tayo talaga, tayo rin in the end, di ba?"
(Tarantado! Tataguan na kita! kala mo magpapahanap ako!!)

9. "I really think that we should break up." "Why?" "Because I don't know if I still love you."
(Tapos next week may kasama na siyang iba. Olrayt sa okei!)

10. "I just realized I haven't had time to walk my dog..."
( O cge! lakad mo na rin buong pamilya mo! magsama kayo ng aso mo!)

11. "It's not you, it's me...
(Buti alam mo!)

12."Talagang kapatid/kaibigan lang ang turing ko sa'yo, e. Let's keep it that way."
(Ganun mo pala ituring ang kapatid/kaibigan mo...tsk... tsk...)

13. “We are not growing anymore"
(nakalimutan ko nasa talampakan pala ang utak mo)

14. "I don't have feelings for you anymore."
(Wala ka kasing puso!)

15. "I need space..."
(Edi dun ka sa OUTER SPACE!)

16. "Mahahanap mo rin ang para sa iyo. Good luck na lang."
(Magtago kang mabuti ha, ayaw na kitang Makita.)

17. "We don't fit in together."
(Oo, ang taba mo kse. )

18. "Sorry kisses, di ka gusto ng mama ko"
(Hindi ko rin naman gusto ang nanay mo!)

19. "Sorry, I just realized mas gusto ko sa lalake "
(Eh di umamin ka rin! bakla!)

20. "let's call it QUITS! "
(QUITS mo mukha mo! Ano to laro?)

21. "Pupunta na ako sa America and I won't come back. Don't follow me there, please."
(Bakit sa AMerica? bakit hndi na lang sa IRAQ?)

22. " Na Realize ko mahal ko pa pala Ex ko/ mas mahal ko pala bestfriend ko"
(Sinong Ex?? May pumatol pa pala sayo?!?!?!?!)

23. " Masyado kang Bata "
(Mamasan pala ang gusto mo.)

24. " Kung talagang tayo kahit saang sulok ng mundo magtatagpo tayo"
(Hinding hindi na tayo magtatagpo.)

25. It was not meant to be ... so honey i am setting you free to look for your destiny"
(May pa-destiny destiny ka pang nalalaman...)

26. "our time together was beautiful ... but i realized that there are still things i like to discover so ...."
(Ikaw ba si Magellan???)

27. "You are too immature for me..."
(OO na, MAMASAN nga ang gus2 mo eh.)

28. "It seems that we are not compatible with each other."
(Hindi nga, TAO ako, HAYUP ka!)

29. "Tama na. Ayoko na. "
(Eh di WAG!!!!)

30. “I’ve decided to move on with my life... "
(Go on, basta wag ka ng magpapakita.)

31. "DI NA KITA MAHAL?"
(Ako ba tinanong mo kung mahal pa kita?)


Minsan sa buhay ng isang tao . . . masarap magmahal . . . pero pag iniwan ka nang taong mahal mo . . . Eto lang ang masasabi mo . . ."Minsan lang magmahal ang pusong tanga.”


Ikaw? Ano ang break up line mo?

Monday, February 16, 2009

Why Women Cry


A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:

"When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Sunday, February 15, 2009

YM Conversation (Issue No. 3)


Him: Marvin?

Me: A*****n ? Ikaw ba yan?

Him: Ako nga ‘to bhe. =)

Me: Kumusta ka na? Long time ahhh... ilang taon ba? Isa? Dalawa? Buhay ka pa pala.

Him: Grabe ka lang, nag tetext kaya ako syo.

Me: Oo nga pala... ng mga forwarded quotes. LOL.

Him: Minsan lang. Hehehe. Musta na si mommy mo?

Me: Ok naman. She’s doing better now. Medyo, she has to watch her diet and make sure na she gets enough rest every day. Hindi na din pwede masyado magpagod. Pero okay naman sya. Bakit mo natanong?

Him: Wala naman. Napanaginipan ko kse sya nung isang gabi eh.

Me: Ahhhh....

Him: Sorry, hindi na ako nakadalaw nung nasa hospital sya.

Me: Ok na sa amin yung mga prayers nyo. =)

Him: May boy friend ka na?

Me: Bakit ba lahat kayo tinatanong nyo ako nyan. Uso ba yan ngayon?

Him: Hindi naman, gusto ko lang malaman.

Me: Wala po. Single.

Him: Pwede kita ligawan ulit?

Me: Huh?

Him: Seryoso ako? Okay lang ba?

Me: Lasing ka ba o bored ka lang? After 2 years, babalik ka at sasabihin mo sa akin yan? Anong gusto mo naman maniwala ako?

Him: Kailan ba kita niloko?

Me: Hindi naman yun yung point ko eh. I mean why me? why now? Naubusan ka na ba ng pwedeng i date? Hahaha.

Him: Seryoso yung tao, pinagtatawanan mo. =(

Me: Ano ba kseng nakain mo?

Him: Wala. Na mimiss ko lang yung dati. Babawi ako ngayon promise. Dami kong kasalanan the last time eh.

Me: Kasalanan? Ano ka ba. Naghiwalay tayo ng walang sama ng loob sa isa’t isa diba. Nag usap tyo ng maayos noon. It was a mutual decision. Walang may kasalanan, there are just some things na hindi talaga meant to be. Parang tyo, we are just meant to be friends.

Him: So pwede nga kita ulit ligawan?

Me: Siguro mas okay na wag na lang. Friends na lang tayo. I think we are better off like this.

Him: Ganun. =(

Me: Opo.

Him: Hindi ka ba masaya nung tyo?

Me: Saan naman nanggaling yan? Syempre masaya. Sino ba naman ang makakalimot sa pagkain natin kay Babadji (na sarado na pala ngayon), na kinaibigan mo pa si ate para dagdagan lagi yung ulam natin at lagi pa tayong may soup. Hahahaha.

Him: Syempre, ma diskarte ang asawa mo noon eh. Sarado na sila? Saan ka na kumakain?

Me: Oo naman. Matagal na. Madami namang ibang kainan doon dba. =)

Him: Eh yung mga plato nasa bahay pa?

Me: Oo naman. Kasama ng mga mangkok, tasa, kutsara at tinidor na ninakaw mo pa sa cabinet ng mommy mo. Hahahaha. Kapag nag ta take out ako ng food, ginagamit ko yun, pero syempre bihira lang naman mangyari yun dahil tinatamad akong magdala ng food sa bahay kaya parati lang akong kumakain sa labas.

Him: Edi ginamit yun ng mga ex mo?

Me: Syempre naman. Ano namang gagamitin nila eh yun lang naman ang gamit ko sa bahay. Hehehe. Hayaan mo, sasabihin ko magpa thank you syo.

Him: Hmmmmp! Wag na.

Me: Asan na yung lover mong matanda? Tandang tanda ko pa. Doon ako nagsimulang magalit sa mga matatandang bading. Parati kse nilang inaagaw ang mga syota ko eh. Hahahaha.

Him: Wala na kme noon.

Me: Bakit eh love na love mo kaya yun. Imagine binura mo pa ako sa friendster dahil ayaw nya. Doon ka pa sa kanila tumira. Friends mo pa yung mga friends nya. Pero alam mo, naintindihan ko naman yun. You were starting a life with him at hindi naman makakatulong kung lagi ka pa ding magiging updated sa mga nangyayari sa kin dba.

Him: Sorry.

Me: No need to say sorry. Ito ang gusto kong maintindihan mo. We are where we are now because this is exactly where we are supposed to be. 2 years ago, siguro hindi pa natin maiintindihan, pero ngayon, everything makes perfect sense. Nangyari ang dapat mangyari for us to become better individuals. Even if we did not end up together, nag grow naman tyo dba... and now we know better.

Him: Kung may babalikan ka sa aming mga ex mo, sinong babalikan mo?

Me: Wow. Bigat! Parang the buzz lang. Tough ten question number seven. Hahaha. Hmmm.... yung totoo? Wala.

Him: Wala? Bakit? =(

Me: Because we had our chance. Tayo, kami... lahat... we were all given a chance. Pero kung hindi kayo, hindi kayo right? Yun nga ang natutunan ko eh, that time is never enough kaya you have to make the most of every moment. Walang assurance ang mga bagay bagay, pwedeng magkatabi kayo natulog ngayon pero wala na pala sya pag gising mo. The only way not to regret is to give it your all. Sabi nga dba, you have to love and give until it hurts no more. Kaya wala akong pipiliing balikan. Wala akong pipiliting ayusin. Why waste your time trying to make ends meet kung alam nyo naman na sa huli ay hindi rin kayo. I would rather waste my time waiting for the right guy and be ready and worthy when he comes my way.

Him: Give? Eh give na nga lang ako ng give, wala ng natira sa akin.

Me: Mali ka dyan. You never run out of love. Hindi ka pwede maubusan dahil hindi naman nila nakukuha syo ang pagmamahal mo. That’s the beauty of loving, the more you give, the more you gain. Pwedeng at certain times magkulang o sumobra kaya pero hindi ka mauubusan kailanman ng pagmamahal dahil kahit minsan hindi naman nakukuha ng ibang tao ang mga bagay na kusa nating ibinibigay sa kanila.

Him: That makes sense. Thank you.

Me: Thank you din. You came into my life during my lowest moment. Kung hindi ka dumating noon, hindi ko alam where I’d be now. Thank you for taking good care of my heart kahit hindi ka naman cardiologist.

Him: Hahaha. Hayaan mo, mag dodoktor ako. Miss you Bhe.
Me: Marvin na lang. =) Reserve mo na lang yan sa next boyfriend mo.

Him: =) I’ll see you around.

Me: Remember, no surprise visits.

Him: I can’t promise that.

Me: Bahala ka, hindi kita pagbubuksan ng pinto.

Him: Ingat ka. Miss you like hell.

Me: Same here. Nice to hear from you again.